How I met my girlfriends series: Vishva!!!
May, 2019 It was a summer break. I had just completed my bachelor's as I told you earlier, I got into NFSU, Gandhinagar. I was stunned by the looking at campus, I just could not wait to join. My parents and I were at the university for final admission formalities. I was so looking forward to live in the campus hostel or else a rent a PG. But destiny had something else planned I guess. So, we found out that the campus facilities were full, but there is a girls' hostel(four girls sharing one room, so damn scary) that university is associated with, off-campus. My immediate reaction was "NO PAPA, NEVER!!!" I don't get along with women okay... The only female friend I made in 18 years was Drashti. Most of the girls I have met were stupid and mean. Trust me I can bare all kinds of women, be it rude, loud, crybaby, dumb, cheat, pathetic, lier, foxy, nice or not-so-nice ones but I HATE MEAN WOMEN!!! I just can't stand them. And I have had explored all these categories in women through out my childhood. I had high hopes here, I did not wanted to take any step towards apocalypses. But the worst happened...
Standing in the reception area of university with other group of families, Me convincing papa... dare not to put me into some hostel. Women are monsters, I assured him that I'll run away if I felt like. A family standing besides us may have over heard me saying that and I don't know how my parents and them got into to talking. Some serious parenting skills showcase it was... The lady was super cute and the dashing man with a firm voice suggested, "My daughter also got in, we were just about to go have a look at same Girls Hostel that they referred... how about we go together?" And when Gujarati families meet each other, they do ask what religion they belong from... my worst fear came true when we found out that we were from the same god damn religion. My life was doomed. I knew papa will put us together the very moment. But where is the daughter??? I wondered... having no idea about the bombshell that they were about to drop. So, while the parents were talking, I came to know that their daughter and I went to same college in bachlor's. Not just that, we both were from the same Chemistry batch... That was it!!! The End!!! You should have seen our mothers' eyes sparkling!!! Rishta pakka!!!
Could I be more upset that day??? My journey had not even begun and yet I already found myself having to tag along some stupid(again sovvy, no offense but I had so many reasons to dislike women back than) girl from my previous college... "I told you how much I hated that college and the people right papa??? You did not even care to ask me before giving them a commitment", I whispered. I could soooo relate to my grandma telling her marriage story with grandpa!!! So not cool. But where is the bride though, I mean their daughter??? She was my only hope to get out of this mess, while I was planning to approach her and get this deal cancelled... I spotted a short girl, wearing a kurti and denim(Vishva' s signature style), nose pierced, winked eye liner, long and open hairs, walking towards us. There she was!!!
"Hi, I'm Vishva" she said. We greeted she came to know what all happened while she was gone. The next thing we knew... We were on the way to the hostel and I did not get a chance to speak with her in private. But all the way there I was just convincing papa, there was no way I am living with these many girls in one room. Though we were in the same college for past three years, we never cross paths. I so regret that now, because life would have been easier If I had here as my friend among all the shitty people but anyways... We took a tour of the hostel, four girls in one freakin room!!! No ways that was gonna happen... While us women taking the tour, our fathers at the reception were with the warden and I literally have no idea how that bitch convinced our fathers to get us in and also pay for a year in advance.
My papa won't even trust my husband when it comes to me I guess... According to him, he's the only trust worthy man in my life and I should have to agree with him every time. He's right okay!!!<3 He won't take any chance with my security... that bitch must have done some voodoo move on my papa I am telling you, because I did get away from a hostel situation earlier. But there was no chance this time... All these time I was praying to god to bring some nice women in my life before I complete lose my faith in women and this shit happened. Me and Vishva giving each other that disappointing look just when the warden said, "Beta sign the contract please, you shall have an experience of a life time... I'll put you in the same dorm" Little did we know, that did come true!!!
Ya I judged her even before I came to know her okay, but that was my instant feeling... I told you guys what categories in women I have had explored right!!! I am only human... one sad human that day!!! Anyways we moved in together, Bed A was mine and B was hers. C and D were occupied by two others(keeping it for the hostel blog). I had no way out... I just took a deep breathe and decided to just forget everything and give her a chance. We got into talking and I came to know we both had a shitty experience in our previous college. Instant connection!!! We bitched out about it, I felt so easy with her... Later on I found out that she also had the same feeling about me when she got to know that we were from the same college. She too judged me on that basis. I was super happy!!!
Vishva is a complete animal person. She is a strong woman outside but very emotional from within. In other words, she is my coconut!!! I have always adored her bootylicious body(seriously, from the moment I saw her!!!) She is my sexy mama!!! She's selfless, intelligent, witty and super protective of me. Her way of expression is different than my other girlfriends. She has always been mature of her age(from outside okay, she doesn't show her emotions that easy but we get it) I could be in my true element when I'm around her. She is so fearless that she'd literally jumped into an ongoing fight when it comes to saving connections. She is a responsible drinker(okay, gotta act like one when I am drinking). I could literally go nuts around her. Vishudaa, I still remember you patting my back when we were in the car, heading back to the hostel in Goa!!! And how you got into the fight with the bouncer even though you had a broken nose, when I locked myself into the washroom!!! You covered for me and packed my bags, when I have uncalled dates!!! You cooking yum yum food for me when we lived together!!! And the list is never ending but this blog has to end at some point right???
Having her in my life really restored my faith in women. She is the second of my four girlfriends. Its not my fault okay!!! I met Drashti in kindergarten and 18 freakin years later I made another strong female connection... I had almost given up. Vishudaa, you're a savior!!! Ya, many girls did come and go but I was sure I am gonna cherish this woman for the rest of my life. She is one the people who pulled out the best version of me. I am so proud and I love her so much!!!
PS: Bitch, my girl is POLICE!!! We are closest in distance and yet we haven't met since few months... and writing this blog to tell you that, mil le bhai!!!